The Widow’s Gift Worksheet

When your beloved died, you didn’t just lose the person who loved you — you lost the one who delighted in choosing gifts that made you feel seen. Buying yourself a gift isn’t selfish; it’s a small act of care and even a bit of needed frivolity. You are still allowed to receive something beautiful, even if you’re the one giving it.

Just like when Eric was alive, I am so excited for his gift to me. Some people may think it is silly. They have never lost the love of their life.

Please treat yourself.

A Simple Gift-Choosing Worksheet

What is one thing your beloved would have chosen for you this year?

What small comfort, joy, or bit of frivolity would make you smile when you open it?

What gift would remind you that you are still here, still worthy, and still allowed to enjoy something just for you?

A Gentle Call to Acknowledge Yourself

You survived an incredibly hard year, and that deserves to be honored. Your beloved would want you to have something that brings you joy, even if it comes in a small box you wrapped yourself. Grief is heavy, and giving yourself one moment of beauty is not indulgent, it is healing.