A curated list of the best books for widows navigating grief after losing a spouse, including inspiring memoirs, healing stories, and practical tools for rebuilding life after loss.

A widow can feel small and lost in the great big world, all alone. After Eric died, I started noticing something that no one warned me...

Printable worksheet: 💗 Part 1: Acknowledge the Shift 💗 Circle or highlight what’s true for you right now: • I miss the people I used to...

You’re here because you’re ready to take a small step forward. Let’s break it down into something simple and doable. Before I ever showed up to a hiking group…before I got on a plane to Israel… my steps looked much smaller. Your starting steps are things like: Looking at the website. Thinking about going. Driving there… and almost turning around. Buying a new outfit (!) Sometimes the step isn’t the big thing. Sometimes it’s just getting a little closer. And that prepares you

Sometimes a comeback begins with something as simple as moving a chair. Many widows quietly wonder what to do with their home after the death of a spouse. Some feel pressure to remove everything quickly. Others feel like moving anything would be a betrayal. There is no universal timeline for grief. But sometimes healing begins with something much smaller than we expect. Sometimes it begins with something as simple as moving a chair . When Your Home Feels Frozen After Loss Aft

My unexpected love has come in the form of my daughter. Before we were just regular old mother and daughter. Now she is my everything. She helps me and loves me in all ways. It is humbling and I hope I live up to it for her. Valentine’s Day is over. Some of us survived it. Some of us powered through it. Some of us pretended it didn’t exist. Some of us cried in the bathroom and then fixed our mascara. Whatever is fine. Grief doesn’t run on a calendar. Just because February 14

This is not about goals or resolutions.This is about giving yourself permission to be open. A vision board like this is not meant to push you forward. It is meant to sit with you, quietly, and remind you of what you are allowed to consider again. This can be done slowly. It does not need to be finished in one sitting. A prayer to begin God, I do not need to know the whole path.Help me notice what You are placing before me. Help me stay open without pressure or fear. Guide my

Permission Prompts for January You do not need to answer these perfectly. You do not need to act on them. Let them sit with you. What feels daunting or demanding about the push to start fresh this January? What part of your life needs acknowledgment before anything new is added? If you gave yourself permission to look somewhere different, where might your eyes go? That is enough for now. If you would like to explore this more deeply, my friend and grief coach Chris and I are

When your beloved died, you didn’t just lose the person who loved you — you lost the one who delighted in choosing gifts that made you feel seen. Buying yourself a gift isn’t selfish; it’s a small act of care and even a bit of needed frivolity. You are still allowed to receive something beautiful, even if you’re the one giving it. Just like when Eric was alive, I am so excited for his gift to me. Some people may think it is silly. They have never lost the love of their life.

A worksheet for a calmer, kinder December. This season doesn’t have to look the way it used to. It only needs to feel manageable for the person you are today. Use this simple plan to help you release what’s too much and hold on to what brings peace. 1. What I Can Keep This December Write down the traditions, moments, or practices that bring comfort, connection, or quiet joy. Examples: tiny trees, lights, a calm morning, prayer, watching a Christmas movie, visiting one meaning

A simple guide to help you shape a Thanksgiving or holiday celebration you can survive. This worksheet is meant to steady your heart, lower your anxiety, and help you make intentional choices before the day arrives. Answer each prompt honestly and gently. There are no right or wrong answers. 1. Where I Will Be on Thanksgiving/Holiday Celebration Write the location that feels safest and most manageable for you. 2. Who I Want Near Me (and Who I Do Not) List the people who feel

1. What is weighing on you right now? List the events, obligations, or expectations that feel heavy or draining this season. 2. What are you afraid will happen if you say no? Name the fear. Sometimes writing it down takes away its power. 3. What do you actually need right now? Rest, space, quiet, company, support, clarity, time. Be honest. 4. Which items on your list can you release? Choose the ones that are not essential to your healing or stability. 5. Gentle scripts you ca

“See, I am doing a new thing.” – Isaiah 43:19 The holidays can stir up a storm of memories—old traditions, empty chairs, and moments that once felt full but now feel tender. When life changes, our traditions can too. Letting go of certain things doesn’t mean you’re letting go of love; it means you’re creating space for peace and presence in this new season. Think about the following questions to help prepare you for the holiday season. 1. Traditions I’m letting go of this yea

“You prepare a table before me in the presence of my grief…” – Psalm 23:5 (adapted, I replaced “enemies” with “grief” because that is our...

✨ “The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.” – Psalm 126:3  ✨ After Eric died, happiness vanished. Did that...

Here is the worksheet I refer to in the June newsletter. I wish you a peaceful summer full of growth and healing. Would love to hear your...

Not sure where to begin? Start with what lights you up. Finding your why  doesn’t always start with a big vision—it often starts with...

I’ve created a simple printable journal page with all the prompts above and space to explore your thoughts. You can print it, tuck it...

This is my living room, with my white furry stools, the first new thing for the house I bought after Eric died. I moved houses last year...

Valentine’s Day is gone, thank goodness! One thing I learned over my five and a half years of being widowed is that love is still present...